|Posted by Ruth M Garcia-Marmolejos on July 10, 2014 at 5:25 PM|
People have a habit of judging others and forgetting who and what they were, who they started with, where they lived. The past should teach us how to be better human beings, understand others, for no one knows what we went through, what we have done and s and why! I have seen so many belittle and be embarrassed by others who forget that they were there once and were even worse. I believe in giving others who actually need help a chance to go after their dreams. If you will read my book, RUTH MINERVA, you will understand. Although I can proudly say with my head held up, that I have nothing to be ashamed of, and no regrets. I helped many people who were lost, drug addict, delinquents, and with other problem, become the mature responsible men and women they are today. When everyone gave up on them I didn’t.
No one wants the responsibility of taking care of a family of two adults and 4 children. I know, because it happened to me, then I had my fifth. The mother can‘t find a baby sitter for her kids, so it‘s hard for her to go to work. With all her education, she is unable to work unless she finds a baby sitter. Then we have the father, who with all his education cannot find a job, either because he was a delinquent, he is overqualified, and jobs are hard to find.
Bad people are not always bad, Give them a chance who knows, they might turn out better than expected. Single mothers can raise their children as well as married mothers, unmarried couples can sometimes be better parents than those who are married, no divorce! Couples can help each other raise their children, like the Brady Bunch, lol.
Who are those who lived with addicts and drunks who stole from the family, to judge others? Who are those who are those who played their spouses dirty? So what that the races are mixed, we are all humans. I like my Oreos with the vanilla cream inside, and I like smores, lol. Who are those who have high college degrees and are either still home watching TV, playing games, living off your wives, playing housewife? Who are many of who are you, those who control your spouse? Who are any of you to judge anyone else, instead of doing something for you? Remember I know who came from where!
I have been there and will help those who need me. I now have a wonderful husband who loves me, I survived all and am proud to say, that I have a wonderful family. They are not perfect, but they are mine! I keep getting great-grands and my life keeps shining.
I am not writing this comment about anyone in particular, there are many with this problem, but if the shoe fits, wear it! I just can’t keep quiet after I hear people talking about others, especially people who are in need. Take a good look in the mirror.